How To Win A Date...

I always juggling around in my thoughts that what is going to matter if I not look good? Educated? Well equipped? Well dressed? What is going to matter if I not behave properly? Speak properly? Is it really going to matter???

People always say “First Impression Is Last Impression” and that make me confused because is it really going to matter? So, the answer is Yes, it’s really matter. Okay! Lets go beyond the concept because I am still trying to configure a theory for the “Impressions”. Your impression is like your persona, what kind of personality you are? How you behave to others? How you speak, gesture, posture? Human eye is an advance High Definition (HD) camera set-up created by God/Cells/Nature and it had an advance system to detect the personality behind the face. It’s not going to matter how cleaned you edged your make-up on your face but you cannot able to cheat eyes. So, when you decided to play with eyes, you have to prepare yourself for that. You have to play, as like they love, you have to dressed well, gesture and posture well and the very important thing is “Behavior”.

Anyway, let me give you an example; Suppose, you are going for a date with a new girl who is just landed in your office couple of days ago. You start liking her from the first day but you could not able to courage to tell her that you like her pretty much. You like her smile; you wanted to spend some time together with her but did not courage to do so. So, there is a chance to let your feelings fly high and you got a pretty good chance to show some courage but never be more personal to her because sometimes overloaded emotions flooded all things, so, don’t rush for it.

Now, you got the approval for the date tonight but are you going without any decided things? If yes then focus on few things:

• Decide a calm and soothing place to hang out (it’s vary people to people, so, find the interest).
• Give her a call or message to remind her for the meeting but don’t rush and show over excitement for the date.
• Reach little early to the venue where you going to meet and show that you are waiting for her but don’t repeat this again and again that “you were waiting for her”.
• Don’t be nervous, be calm and relax.
• Don’t be more personal (physical interactions), she will find her space and she will not felt nervous too.
• Before ordering meal/dishes, better ask for her taste but don’t insist her to order.
• Be well mannered on the table because first impression is the last impression. The well you behave, the well she understands you.
• After meal, try to drop her to her house (if possibly) but don’t force her again and again.
• And last but not the least thing, ask her for a message or call for telling that she reached home safely, regarding the experience of date and how she feels but just in a formal way.

So, go and have a date with which you like most. I hope this impression techniques will work in your life because everyone is getting benefits in every field. So, sharp your edge of Impressions put it on fire and goal. I hope it’s going to work…

Note: If this technique works;

• Don’t rush for dates again and again.
• Give her, her space, freedom and individuality.
• Don’t stick to her every time, let her breath easily and give her.
• Always ready to help her whenever she needed but don’t rush always.